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Should I get married or not? Should I change my Last Name? Is it better to have children before or a



I recently got married and people frequently ask me different questions regarding this subject.


Getting married. Yes or No?


Wedding is a very serious matter in people's lives. Very often, people fail to meet their obligations undertaken with utmost care and responsibility. Many get married more than once.


What happens on the energy level?



Entering into marriage, we bind ourselves to another person, not only in the presence of witnesses and guests, but also on the energy level. We mutually pledge and exchange rings as a sign of a particular union. Consequently, no one else shall be empowered to break the energy union. Indeed, a particular ritual has been performed and its effect shall not be limited to the signatures on legal documents.


In this regard, eventually we are taking responsibility for the person whom we have attracted into our life. This is very similar to the emergence of a new life. Only in this case the union of two people is born. It's not quite the same thing as the birth of a child. Child comes to this world as an individual and it should not be tied to anyone, whereas after the wedding ceremony people in a pair no longer exist separately - they become inseparable and integrated parts of a whole!


Deciding on a divorce, not caring about your spouse, or even worse not treating it with due respect, we thus strongly provoke the emergence of bad karma. After the wedding, the couple must learn how to live in harmony together, spiritually grow, evolve, mutually adapt and respect each other.


Also, the matrimonial union at the energy level is not broken in the subsequent marriage with another person. Karmic wheel turns further. So, the first marriage is the genuine and unique one. Person bears full responsibility for it. It can be said that energetically another marriage shall not be regarded. The only exception is the death of a spouse, it’s also the only way to break the connection between spouses during this lifetime .


Outsiders should not interfere in the relationship of the people who are married. Such interference would entail suffering and trials, not only for you personally, but also your children and their descendants.



Everyone needs to seriously think about to whom and for what reason they are getting married, ask yourself whether you will be able to stay in marital relationship to the end or it's just a momentary whim.



Changing the Last name. Pros and cons.


My recommendation is to keep yours and your husband's last names. Thus the effect of the vibrations of both last names is nicely balanced. In a way, possible bad impact of the vibrations of husband’s surname on woman’s further fate will be cancelled. You have probably seen such phenomenon when a woman following the wedding, in a certain period of time drastically changes in her behavior and looks. A woman from a successful and active person turns into a lazy, unkempt plane Jane, and faces challenges every step of the way. This is not because after marriage she stopped grooming herself, but owing to the fact that the vibration of her newly acquired last name became heavier. Of course, anything can happen and vice versa, in this case, the change of surname did some good. There are also cases when maiden name causes problems for a woman, whereas after the wedding, taking the surname of her husband, her life is changing for the better. Sometimes men also decide to take wife's surname, thereby improving their lives. For these reasons, before the wedding it is good to analyze the situation and choose the most preferred option.


Planning for a Baby. Before or after the wedding?


This is a broad subject. However, according to the laws of energy, it does not matter. Soul, in most cases does not care whether couple is united in marriage or not. It will come to Earth in the right time. The couple can try as they wish conceiving a child, but if the time is not right, it will not happen. Sometimes there are cases when the couple to have a baby needs to enter into a lawful marriage, because only then will they be able to undergo the necessary experience. It should be understood that all the children who were born in any relationship, the world needs, and they have certain mission. Those, who should not have been born are not born, and get born the ones who have to be born.


In accordance with the laws of good karma for a baby is important that it is wanted by both parents. Its birth should not be a weapon with which to attract, keep, or manipulate a man. If none of the potential parents is planning a child, and everything happens by itself, it is also good, and this fact in itself does not cause any negative implications.



The child does not bind people energetically, so that a person may have several children from different partners, provided that prior to that a person was unmarried.



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